has anyone on this sight heard from keith or have anyidea where he is i have his son he hasn't seen him in three months i just want to know what's goin on with my babys daddy

Hello.    You mean passivesoul right? He hasn't been here since he deleted his profile. I havn't heard anything.

Hi.Oh my goodness.You two must not be doing very good if you are looking on this website for traces of him. I am so sorry to hear that.I hope things turn around for you soon.

not doing good oh my god do ya'll know anything about keith i could tell so much but to put it buntly he knocked me up, cheated on me, lied, and he hasnt seen his son in 3 months he hasnt tried to call or anything ever since the last time i caught him red handed cheating on me i have scares and pictures of bruises all my friends have ditched me b/c of him did ya'll know im only 17 this is suppost to be my senior year in high school and i have a 6 month old son that i provide for because keith just wont ever since he's been born me and my family have bought faul everything he need food clothes diaper keith and his crack head family has not done one thing for him no dipers of food or christmas presents it's not fair to my son i dont know what to do it's tearing me up inside and it's not that i want keith back i'm trying to move on but the year we were together was the most terrifying year of my life

there is a bigger reason for both of you as to why this new baby is in your life...I could bash on themalespecies as a whole and bitch about why it would be an amazingly different story if it was men that got pregnant instead.but,*sigh*it is what it is and God made us the protecters for so many reasons.
From what i got from your paragraph he's a failure of a boyfriend and a parent.That makes him very human.I don't know too much about your story with him, but i do know that it's far from easy.And moreover,that the only man your son will ever need to have faith in is God.Because that's someone infinately stonger than any human father could ever replicate.I don't know you but i do know that you are beautiful and strong because of the depths that make up you being a woman and a mom.Keep your head high baby.You are precious and not forgotten.Write back if you'd like.I come here often.

keith wasnt just my boyfriend he was my husband and i try to hold my head high but sometimes it really hard after fauls was born i was been phsycially, mentally, and sexually abused for three months by my husband untill my mom had to drag me away from him and then we got evicted from our aparment that my grandparent payed rent on every month for eight months (the whole 8 months we lived there) and i havent seen him since my grandparents are still paying for it b.c of all the wholes in the wall and all the clean up b/c keith destroyed the place and almost everything me and his son owned...and on top of all that he was spreading lies about me i read everything he had on this websight even the privet messages everyone of the few friends i had will not talk to me b/c of keith so i sit at my moms house where my son and i  live in the living room and take care of my baby all day and that's my life no friends no going places or having fun like most 17 year old just me and my son it's really hard sometime but i do feel alot better talking about it at least i have a few people who live in the magic box to talk to

Well as long as i can get to a computer you got me.I think that your husband will grow up eventually.There is a lot to get used to when it comes to a new baby, a wife and bills to pay.That can be tough and scary all at once especially if you're a man with the idea of having to protect and provide for someone other than yourself all the time. I can garuntee that whenever he's alone by himself.Away from all the distractions he thinks of you.And his son.
You can't take part in something as special as having a baby and sharing someone elses's name and not still think about them, imagine yourself with them in some sort of future again...
I can't be for sure but i think that he just needs to do some heavy thinking about what type of person he wants to be and with enough time in between the both of you he will be back.If he does'nt come back you have to have faith in the fact that God has a bigger purpose for you and your life that does'nt include him. Let him see that you can do it on your own and that you have been doing on your own since he's been gone.
The best way that i can advise you to think about it is that he is missing out on something more abundantly precious than anything else in the world. And that's a life with you and his son.These are moments that he will n.e.v.e.r. be able to have again and believe me girl,if anything eats at him every night before he falls asleep it's that.    
And for the record.
There's no normal when it comes to being a seventeen year old.*smile*You are what you are and there's no comparison.  

--Last edited by Junebug on 2007-04-27 15:50:24 --

the thing is i dont want him to come back after everything i went through i could never trust him again i hate him i just want to know where he is so i cant give him a peice of my mind and maybe a foot in the ass that would make me feel alot better i know it's horrible but you dont understand i was so scared of him and now he's gone and i dont know what to do im so stuck but who know because i dont right now im to tired to think

ah too tired to think. maybe thats what keeps me sleeping. so that i don't think so much.

do you have yahoo im?

no it keeps getting infected or corrupted or hacked or whatever...

bummer i really want to chat with you

 

Hey Skye,
He does this hun.  And he disappears and when he realizes that he's fucked up and it's too lat is when he wants to try.  Stay strong for you and your son.  I know you can.  He's an ass.  Ya if you need any support you got us girls here!