A guy wrote this in his myspace. and it should make you think--->

I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to. Girls prefer being called beautiful instead of hot or sexy. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fulfill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because its true and you know they like to hear them. In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like freaking retarded little boys.

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when i first read this, i was going to let it go. but then i thought about and i had to say somethin. and just so you know, this might be a long read.... but it might be a good read too.....

this is what i started to think.......

i started to think that this guy is either a dumbass, or he is trying to impress some chick he knows. i also know some women who are soo beautiful but they dont think they are. but exactly how is this my fault? these women have a mind of thier own and made they choice to think of themselves that way. like me saying "your beautiful" is going to erase all the damage from her competing with all the other women she thinks looks better than her. and besides, beauty is all just a matter of opinion. what is beautiful to some, may not be beautiful to someone else. no women can live up to what all guys think is beautiful cause all guys have a different opinion of beauty. and entertaining the thought that it is my fault.... would this mean that i should seek out someone that i dont think i deserve? whether you are a guy or a girl, whenever you seek out someone, you seek out someone that you think is beautiful. whether if your attracted to their looks or personality, that is essentially what you think is beautiful about them....
this guy is right about imperfections being important, but i dont think its makes someone special, it just makes them different. and the part about "deluded fantasies of perfections" is fucking ridiculous.... but the part about women dont exist to fulfill our sexual desires is true, but i dont ever remember anyone ever saying thats why they are here. and no self-respecting guy would ever say or think that. this guy... whoever he is..... is full of shit. im just not sure if he doesnt know women, or if he just dont know men. either way, fuck him.
some people (most likely a woman) will read this and think, oh im a dick or they will think i dont know women. well fuck them. they dont know me and they dont know what im about. i was raised by women. i know how to treat a lady. but some women deserve to be treated better than some others. if some women thinks im a dick and has a low opinion about me, or walks around with a "im better than you" attitude...... why would i want to call them beautiful? i wouldnt..... i wouldnt want to flatter them or shower them with compliments. i would call them a bitch and go about my day.

im almost certain noone will read this, but if you do.... repost and give your opinion on this subject. or message me and tell what you think. pick a side on this litlle debate or give a fresh new look on the matter.
i wonder if any of this even matters at all.......

no comment.But you do bring some good comebacks up.My opinion is well stated on some other page arguing this.